Answers to Commonly Asked Questions
Questions & Answers
Betrayed Partner Questions
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1. You Suspect
- Jan 31, 2023 I suspect my partner is cheating, but they deny it. What should I do?
- Jan 31, 2023 My spouse has been involved with someone online. It feels like an affair, but they say I'm taking things too seriously. Am I overreacting?
- Jan 30, 2023 My partner claims they are "just friends," but I think they’re having an affair. What should I do?
- 2. You Just Found Out
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3. Your Partner's Reaction
- Jan 27, 2023 Affair Fog: My partner's views and values have shifted since the affair started, but they claim they always felt this way. What's the truth?
- Jan 24, 2023 My spouse says their affair is over, but I don't know if that's true. What should I do?
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse refuses to answer my questions about the affair. Don't I have the right to know?
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse says they love me but are not in love with me anymore. How can I get them to love me again?
- 4. Choices After Infidelity
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5. Healing After Infidelity
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse refuses to answer my questions about the affair. Don't I have the right to know?
- Jan 21, 2023 I want to know the truth about the affair. What questions should I ask?
- Jan 20, 2023 How long should I keep asking questions about the affair?
- Jan 18, 2023 Can I ever really trust my spouse again?
- Jan 17, 2023 Should I make my partner go to counseling?
- Jan 15, 2023 How long will it take our relationship to heal?
- Jan 14, 2023 The affair broke our marriage; now I am alone. Is my life ruined?
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6. The Other Woman/Man
- Jan 28, 2023 How can I compete when the Other Woman (or Other Man) seems better than me?
- Jan 26, 2023 My partner says they are done with the affair but still want to stay in touch with the affair partner. Should I be okay with that?
- Jan 25, 2023 How can I get my partner to break off contact with the lover without demands or ultimatums?
Involved Partner Questions
- 1. Your Partner Doesn't Know
- 2. Your Partner's Reactions
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3. Making A Choice
- Jan 27, 2023 Why should I return to my marriage if I'm no longer in love with my spouse?
- Jan 26, 2023 My feelings for my lover are so intense; how can anyone expect me to get over them?
- Jan 25, 2023 I'm trying to end the affair but keep going back and forth between my lover and spouse. How do I choose?
- Jan 24, 2023 If the affair is over, is it okay to have ongoing contact with the affair partner?
- 4. Understanding Your Affair
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5. Other Questions
- Jan 20, 2023 What should I tell my kids?
- Jan 19, 2023 So much damage has been done. Is my life ruined?