So much damage has been done. Is my life ruined?
It might feel that way. I don't know your story, but I have heard and lived through enough affair consequences to know that shame can become a heavy weight bound to you.
You can't change the past. Your affair will always be a regretful part of your story. But regret still leaves room for hope.
Whether you can believe it or not, there is grace for you. Here’s my definition of grace: Taking a wrong turn and ending up in the right place. You obviously took a wrong turn. You are probably witnessing the significant consequences of that choice. But your story isn’t over yet. The mess you’re in can catalyze some of the most significant positive changes you will ever experience.
If you had an affair and you're feeling hopeless, I'd encourage you to contact me and tell me a little bit about your story. I'd like to encourage you personally.